Having lived in Poland for over two years, my reflections and perspective on the country come from my own observations. As my work entails frequent social interaction with both men and women of Rzeczpospolita, I have had the opportunity to witness the reality of life here firsthand. Additionally, through my network of colleagues and friends, I have gained insight into the opinions of local people. While acknowledging that this may be a subjective viewpoint, it is more valuable to consider the perspectives of five Polish individuals rather than relying on stereotypes. With that in mind, let’s continue.

Couples of black men and Polish women

Starting with my observations, I’ve noticed a variety of couples in public places where the woman is from Poland and the man is from another country. In most cases, these relationships involve Indo-Europeans, such as a Polish woman and German man or a Polish woman and white American man. However, you may be wondering about the possibility of interracial dating with a Polish girl. From what I’ve seen in Poland, there are many couples where the husband is black and the wife is Polish or where the husband is of Asian type and wife is Polish. Many of these couples have common children and appear to be happy, although it’s unclear if they are permanent residents in Poland or just visiting their spouse’s home country and family.

It is only personal qualities that matter

It is common for Polish women to marry foreigners from the U.K. or Germany, likely influenced by their experiences abroad for work. However, this choice of partner is not based on nationality alone. I have evidence to support this statement. A few years ago, I spoke with three Polish girls at a café and inquired about the importance of nationality in their pursuit of long-term relationships. Their response was that what matters most is the individual’s personal qualities, not where they are from – whether it be Ukraine or the United Kingdom. A Polish girl seeks someone who is engaging, caring, and attentive.

Immigrant workers and the possibility of creating a couple with a Polish woman

In Poland, nationality is not a determining factor for women when choosing a partner. A friend of mine, who happens to be from Ukraine, works in Poland. His wife is Polish and they met at the factory where they both worked. Despite ongoing debates and complicated historical issues between the two nations, this couple prioritized their love above all else. They appear to be very content together.

In Ukraine, he worked as a teacher, but in Poland, he works as a blue collar worker, since finding this job was easy, and the salary he earns for physical work is much higher than his previous teacher’s salary in Ukraine. In spite of his intelligence, the fun he has and the multicultural heritage in their family, he still keeps trying to find a job he likes in Poland.

Final thoughts

You may witness an occasional lack of tolerance in Poland. Nevertheless, Poland, as a whole, is known for its warm and hospitable nature, making it an ideal place to call home. When it comes to matters of love and relationships, each situation is unique and personal. It’s better to approach each circumstance individually rather than searching for a universal method to win over a Polish woman since there is no surefire formula. While this may be disappointing, the reality is that you must navigate your own path because no two cases are alike.

P.S. Start acting

Take action! Stop reading too much. Getting a slight kick with motivational information is enough to get started. Nothing more. The best way to know if you like a girl is to show her your appreciation. Act like a real man and you will know whether you have a chance of getting a Polish girlfriend or not.