Let’s assume you are terribly bored with daily routine. You are going to one and the same job for years and all the days seem the same. The job was so promising in the past, and now you’re getting enough salary to have a nice car, solid bank account and pay for mortgage. But all material things do not satisfy you anymore, or satisfy you for a very short period of time.
You are losing interest to your life and have no points or goals for future. Like a programmed robot you are visiting your office from Monday to Friday and drinking heavily on the weekend to forgot about this for a moment. But then it comes back again. And vigorous circle repeats. You are over 30, but you don’t have neither a spouse for life nor a girlfriend. Isn’t it time to change everything until it is too late?
Judging from the title now you are probably thinking I am going to persuade you to visit Ukraine to find future wife and thus, change your life. No. In no case, because now you are not even ready for this.
Who would like to be beside such a man who has no aim? A man, who doesn’t know where he is heading to? Ukrainian women like confident guys, whom they would eagerly follow as strong leaders. They need a man to trust. They usually choose so called “strong shoulder”. But any woman would not trust you, until you trust yourself.
Ukrainian women are picky and you have to believe in yourself and in your own power, skills and achieving personal goals of every aspect of your life. I’M NOT GOING TO ASK YOU TO CHANGE YOURSELF. This is not effective. You are who you are, nice and unique person and you can have everything great, but you need to find what to do in your life so it would bring you satisfaction.
Ok, but how come I am telling about Ukraine here? What connection has the title message with tips for improving personal life? Tips which seem to be given by some sort of homemade sofa psychologist, if to be honest.
To start finding yourself real, with future transformation into promising man and happy husband, I advise you to do in Ukraine some sort of a thing you always were dreaming about, but thought it is unreal to realize in US, for example, due to material, cultural, climate, [you name it] reasons. I am talking about some sort of business you always dreamed to provide in your home country, but could not afford it for some mentioned above reasons.
For example, in Ukrainian rural area you can buy a house for approximately $ 3000! Yes, it’s real. It would be a descent house, and if you spend the same amount for inside repair works, including buying furniture, it would be a great and cheap house to live. You can experiment with how the house of your dream would look like, choose out of versatile technologies and make it environmental friendly. Also you can create the garden of your dreams and finally start eating ecological food, grown by you. As an option – you may construct wooden shed on the territory near the house and practice hay sleeping during warm Ukrainian summer nights. Such ecological house and settlement could attract connoisseurs of agro tourism from Ukraine and abroad. In Ukraine green tourism becomes more and more popular every year. You can do as others – register on booking.com or Airbnb and offer some place to stay in Ukrainian village for fans of green tourism, rural life and for other categories of travelers. There are many other options to propose for tourists along with it – making together rural products like pottery, carpentry, etc.
Or maybe you’ve always dreamed to draw pictures? You can do it here within the inspiration of Ukrainian rural nature and you can propose to do such art therapy for your possible guests. In addition, you can make own blog based on your rural life in Ukraine and start publishing your articles with pictures, make your own videos and start YouTube channel, combining it with your blog.
As you see – there are many interesting things you can do in Ukraine, enjoying your life, sharing your experience with others and making descent amount of money for living here. Remember, that if you earn $1000 in US with your blog it is close to catastrophe, in case if this is your only way of income. But in Ukraine, by earning this sum of money and living in the village, you can easily pretend to be local rich guy. For this amount you can afford a lot in Ukraine, especially in rural area. And what you need for this? Creative mind, strong intention to change your life and Internet.
As a kind of business you also can choose agriculture. Ukraine has the best soils in the world. You can become mini-farmer, grow eco-products and sell them to eco-stores in big Ukrainian cities. Isn’t it a nice opportunity to live the life you wanted in Ukrainian rural area close to the nature? In Ukraine you can buy such a village house I was mentioning near the forest and (or) by the river. I am telling you about business or hobby implying you to find peaceful living without everyday rat race which would allow you to find yourself real. After that, you can start the next step – new level of socializing in Ukraine and in natural way finding future relationship.
To sum up, before coming to Ukraine in search of wife you should stop for a while and think about this the way if you were doing it in the US. Do you agree, that you’re not visiting New York or Denver with special purpose – to find a wife in a week or less, right? You do not visit small towns of Montana in search of available bride as well, right? How wife-husband match usually happens in America? At first, you do some activity in a specific city or town (activity, which brought you to this particular place) – work, volunteerism, charity or your accidental emersion in a new place as a tourist. Then you meet the local people, socialize, make new friends (and some enemies), and, maybe, among them someday sooner or later there is a woman you like. If you show her your attention and the woman also draws her attention towards you, chances are high you both may have a relationship. On the same principle, everything works in Ukraine. But for some reason, many foreigners think that Ukraine is the “‘supermarket of brides” and here they can choose a future wife filtering parameters like hair, skin, height and manners. It sounds idiotic, selfish and even immoral, but most foreign men think exactly this way. To move away from this silly stereotype which brings nothing but disappointment for both parties, I suggest a normal healthy approach – socialization in a beautiful country and already in the process – finding a potential life partner.
What if you still decide to visit Ukraine just in search of future wife having only this particular aim? Most likely you are going to spend huge part of your savings without getting result you want. Chances are high that having no experience you will be great target for so called “gold digger” women. They are very good natural psychologists; they know how to get the trust of a man. They have many tricks in their arsenal. The first one is attractive appearance. Foreign men are attracted by it like butterflies are attracted by fire that is, actually, deathly dangerous for them. Their only aim is to pump as much money from naïve foreigner as it is possible.
Finding yourself real in Ukraine may help you to find own success and peace. Inner harmony most likely would bring you to wonderful family relationship with a Ukrainian woman. This period would be the best thing which has ever happened in your life, therefore, marriage with Ukrainian might be one of the best decisions in your life. But at the same time it is important to keep in mind that marriage is only one thing out of many which bring fulfillment and harmony to man’s life. Other important things like self-realization, self-development and moving toward goals are of major importance as well. Ukraine is able to give you this opportunity to become happy person.