Relationships with Romanian woman: in case you plan
If you are planning to have serious relationships with Romanian woman and you are foreigner, you have to know some things that could help you. If you were looking for such information, probably you have already met Romanian girls and want to try get something started. Anyway, even if you are just curious, the stuff in this article will open you some new horizons that deal with Romanian women. There are two ways possible of your start of relations with Romanian girl: either you both are in Romania or she is in your country. Of course, there is the third option, when you both might appear in some exotic to both of you country, in this case there is great chance to interest her, pay your attention to her, but there might be difference depending on the country you are in. If it is developed country, you are going to have many competitors among other men.
The same if your home country where you have met Romanian girl is developed (U.S, Western EU), there are chances she would try to look for more successful, interesting, more rich men etc. Of course, I’m not saying Romanian girls are all mercantile and not trying to generalize. That is just how it could flow. However, if you are in Romania, you certainly have more chances to interest Romanian girl than her compatriots. It is just such sort of things that many Romanian women prefer foreigners. It might be because they are looking for better life abroad or that Romanian men earn less than foreigners, it is the reality you bump into in Romania.
There is stereotype or rather myth that Romanian women are easy. It is wrong and if you live for some time in Romania you will surely see that. Many Romanian women have close relation to the family and usually are religious, that is why the main value for them is family. Every woman is looking for strong man, who could give her and their future children all the possible. And nowadays money indicate the best how strong the man is. If he was smart enough to earn it in our cruel society, he’d possibly give genetically strong kids who could also survive in this harsh world. Also he is automatically able to protect family. Somehow like that and this is the type of subconscious things and thoughts. Many western men choose Romanian women for wife because they place family the first, but not career and they are not that much emancipated as western women. Romanian women are also very intelligent and you have to take that into consideration, if you are planning to have serious relationship. Otherwise, she would easily understand what is your real aim and that will be the end.
Language barrier might be serious problem, because what is more important than understanding? If you take some language classes this would help to understand each other plus your Romanian girl will see how serious you are as you have already started to learn language and also this shows her your respect to Romanian culture that is also important. You can also ask her give some basic classes and that could help you both to spend good fun time and get closer. Must say that young generation of Romanians speak good English as it is real need of time. Many of them have been abroad, especially to the UK. So, learning Romanian is not necessary, but serious plus for you.
At the very first dates nice topic to use is cultural exchange. Tell her about your country, some interesting facts and stories would be very good. Romanians like to learn about different countries and get to know more how people live overseas. Use that chance and do not forget to ask her share some typical stories. It is a good thing to start conversation and get to know each other better.
Style is important to Romanian girls and you know they dress up very nice, no matter what the occasion is, and you have to match that style. Wear something clean always, do not be overdressed so she could felt not good enough dressed for you, but also do not be dressed up poorly. If you are going for the first date with Romanian girl, it depend on you and your lifestyle, but if you are visiting cafe, t-shirt and jeans are ok.
If you are on the first date with Romanian girls, tell her reasonable compliments. Every woman likes compliments, but they do something special to Romanian women. Keep in mind that golden middle is good in everything, not over-try, because she’ll immediately see that you are fake and this is going to be a great minus on your account.
Give the woman you liked flowers. For no reason, just like a small present. Romanian women appreciate them very much. Find out somehow what are her favorite flowers and try to do it in a way she did not understand why are you asking this and then present those flowers within few days. Except for flowers all other gifts, especially small ones are very good also. Romanian women eagerly accept presents, but be wise and not present to much of gifts, because she might think you are trying to “buy” her. She has to feel your attention and be sure you are serious. All the things you do have to be made with balance.
The name of your lady is also important. Most of Romanian names came from Orthodox Saints. There are also women’s names that sound like flowers. Ask your Romanian girl what does her name means. Good topic for conversation and also shows your deep interest. Find out on the Internet when this name’s Day is celebrated and make some present to your girl. She’d be pleased. What is more important is your attitude within her family. Visiting her family is thing that will surely happen if you are serious about relationships with her and this meeting will happen sooner that you think. In Romania families are family-centered and foreigner could be someone who ruins the balance. That is why she wants to know the family reaction on you, while the things didn’t get to serious. When you are on meeting with her parents, you have to know they probably do not speak English. The topics to speak should be about your own family, what do you do for a life. Some things you are planning together with their daughter, like trips. Show that you respect their daughter.
If you are going outside like restaurant or cafe, you have to pay the bill, it is cultural aspect in Romania and some other countries. On West it is usually splitting the bill. Young Romanians like outdoor activities and your Romanian girl might also like it, mainly because most of activities in Romania are spent at home, including all the preparation with cleaning up and cooking.
You could be even a reason of her being proud she’s dating with you – a foreigner. Of course, it is not like you have to raise your head up because of that. She might not show it and surely will not, but things are like that in post communist Romania. Some of her friends even might be envy or jealous her. Be ready that it won’t be that easy to win your Romanian girl, but it surely worth all the time might be spent.